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  • Tue

    Jan 24, '12

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    Parental Controls for the Kindle Fire

    The Kindle e-reader has been wildly popular.  Now, there is much demand for the Kindle Fire.  The Kindle Fire, which uses the Android Operating System and was built by Amazon.com, recently went on sale and sold multi-millions of units.  This device is useful and very popular, and rightly so. It's a robust Android tablet with e-reader capabilities that sells for $199. The Kindle Fire is a competitor to the iPad.

  • Fri

    Jan 6, '12

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    Marathons and Marriage

    Last weekend my wife and I witnessed an amazing event.  My wife's friend ran a marathon in 4hrs and 12min!   We met her at intervals throughout the race to cheer her and others on.  Each time, I was awestruck at the positive vibes and determination that surrounded this woman.   When the race was over and she crossed the finish line, she wasn't even winded.  No one would have had any clue that this was the first marathon that she had completed.

  • Thu

    Jan 5, '12

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    Women and Pornography, Silent and Widespread

    “My story is different than most women’s. Yes, my life has been affected by pornography. However it isn’t a boyfriend or spouse that has an addiction. I am the addict.” (Source: Good Women Project)
    The typical pornography addict surfs the web for the latest images on their favorite site. They feed their unquenchable addiction and spend countless hours viewing sexually graphic images. 
    According to United Families International blog, out of any given three pornography web sites visitors, one is a woman. So pornography is not just a man’s problem--17% of women would describe themselves as “addicted” to pornography. Women face the same challenges of addiction as  men.  
    One brave woman wrote about her addiction to pornography while on the road to recovery. Like other addicts, she was ashamed and disgusted and wrote about her challenge anonymously on goodwomenproject.com. Her addiction began with romance novels.
    She began reading love stories, which seemed innocent. But after the short-lived story was over, she was left intrigued and unsatisfied. She dabbled in erotic literature but it didn’t satisfy her appetite either. It was then that she began viewing hard-core pornography.
    After years of viewing, she realized she had an addiction. She said, “An addiction is a bad habit that you can’t stop on your own and your personal willpower isn’t enough to help you overcome.”
    She commented that addiction took the joy out of life. She worked less and less; as a result she didn’t have enough money to pay bills or buy food. She stayed up all night and slept during the day. She viewed pornography constantly. Her family noticed the change. She was “living in a world of darkness.”
    This woman watched a friend get arrested in a prostitution sting induced by pornography. She decided to change. She cut herself off from pornography. At 12-step meetings, and while working with a therapist and her ecclesiastical leader, she started to build a new life, free of pornography.
    She notes, “I quit cold-turkey. And I suffered withdrawals. I didn’t sleep for about 3 weeks. I couldn’t think. I didn’t want to eat. All I did for those three weeks was pray, educate myself on addiction and recovery, and do the bare minimum to survive physically. There were moments of despair and hope, pain and joy, fear and love, and darkness and light. In the end I was stronger, more knowledgeable, lighter and above-all else: clean.”
    Any sort of addiction stems from character weaknesses. We use things, such as pornography, as a coping mechanism to these problems. We want to lessen the pain and disappointment we feel in ourselves by numbing it with an addiction. This woman’s first-hand account is devastating but hopeful. And she is one of millions suffering from pornography addiction. She is recovering and has been clean for 10 months. There is hope for the addict.

    How Can Net Nanny Help?
    ContentWatch, makers of Net Nanny, will give a copy of its leading Internet Filter to any addict or addict’s family. Free.
    Here’s how it works:
    The addict should identify a sponsor (e.g. Ecclesiastical leader or spouse). Just like Alcoholics Anonymous, an addict needs a sponsor to go to for help.
    The sponsor contacts ContentWatch to ask for a Sponsor Copy of Net Nanny. (email: dlyon@contentwatch.com) ContentWatch will donate a Sponsor Copy with a free twelve-month license.
    The sponsor installs Net Nanny on the addict’s computer, and keeps the passwords and login credentials. If the addict needs access to Web sites that are being blocked, he or she needs to ask the sponsor for permission. The sponsor can administer requests remotely and no local access required.

  • Wed

    Dec 28, '11

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    Pornography Makes Teen Girls More Likely to have Group Sex

    No, it's not a pretty headline, but it seems to be reality.  According to a Journal of Urban Health study, one in 13 teen girls said they engaged in "multi-person sex" (MPS).  Researchers at Boston University's School of Public Health believe imitation of pornography is a leading cause.

  • Tue

    Dec 27, '11

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    Is Your Doctor distracted by his iPad?

    Smartphones and tablets can be hazardous to your health. Consider that truck drivers and cabbies, police officers and road construction workers, and doctors and nurses like Facebook, texting, and Angry Birds just as much as you. And they do these things while at work, just like you.

  • Thu

    Dec 22, '11

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    Pornography is better than Congress?

    Here's some food for thought.  A recent poll reveals that 9 percent of Americans approve of the job that the U.S. Congress is doing. Thus, the approval rating is 9 percent. By stark contrast, pornography's approval rating is 30%.

    That's a very sad state of the union!

    Source: The Atlantic, Dec. 20, 2011.

  • Wed

    Dec 7, '11

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    .XXX Domain Names Go on Sale!

    After years of rejecting its applications, the Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers (ICANN) decided to give the adult entertainment industry the .xxx top-level domain, a move that results in the establishment of a virtual red-light district on the Web.  This week, the sale began.

    Today, most web site names end in .com, .net, .org, .gov, or .edu.  The implication of this proposed change is that an adult content / pornographic web site will have the option of using the .xxx domain name.  At first glance, this would seem to make it easier for parents or parental controls software vendors to monitor and protect children and teens from objectionable sites. 

    In reality, this change would potentially make it very easy for a curious child to quickly get into trouble.  I envision children getting immediate access to X-rated materials by innocently typing in almost any word with a .xxx name.  Exposure to such images is not quickly forgotten or erased from a young memory.

    Knowing how well-funded corrupt businesses operate, I expect pornographers to co-locate their content on existing .comdomains and also on the new .xxx domain, thus increasing the prevalence of pornography sites.  Pornographers won’t likely voluntary give up their successful .com addresses to locate solely on the .xxx domain.  As a result, pornography content will be more pervasive. 

    As the owner of a few reputable web sites, I have considered what will happen when .xxx domains go on sale and reputablecompanies are a bit slow to purchase their .xxx domain name to simply protect them.  Our company will jump to buy www.netnanny.xxx to avoid the trouble a pornographer can wreak if they do any URL spoofing based on our brand name.

    The other overriding challenge is that there is no real legal regulation, in practice.  Indeed, Internet pornography is hardcore obscenity and it is illegal.  But it is so ubiquitous, it is not usually prosecuted.

    It’s not likely that Congress would be able to pass a law requiring pornographers to conform to the .xxx domain.  And even if passed, such as law would be relatively unenforced in federal court, if the past is an indicator of the future. Historically, efforts by Congress to regulate smut on the Internet have not been upheld by the U.S. Supreme Court.

    In short, as .xxx domains go on sale, we will see an increase in the pervasiveness of pornography and its accessibility.  Ironically, the Internet is used for so many good things too.

  • Tue

    Dec 6, '11

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    Caught in a Trap?

    I recently read about traps used to catch raccoons and monkeys.  Both traps were similar in nature.  A shiny or desirable object was placed in a container with an opening just small enough for the animal’s hand to slip through. Once the animal had secured the object in their paw, they found the opening would not allow them to remove it.  Rather than release the object and go free, the animal would be easily caught by the hunter hours or days later.

    I was intrigued with the simplicity of the trap.  There were no jaws or swing doors, but instead, the animal was held hostage by their own psychological disposition.  An association was made with people and the monkeys or raccoons. For many individuals, pornography has become that shiny or desirable object.  I could not help but think how accurate the writer was in drawing this comparison.

    Pornography is addictive in that it causes a powerful chemical reaction in a human brain.  This reaction evokes desires and emotions that are found in physically healthy relationships.  Individuals who are viewing pornography are like the monkey and raccoon, held by their inability to let go.  At times it takes the assistance of another to understand that you can simply choose to let go and walk away. 

    I work for ContentWatch and all opinions expressed here are my own.

  • Thu

    Dec 1, '11

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    Child Pornography - Serious and Disturbing

    This week, Grant Smith, a professor from the University of Utah was arrested for viewing child pornography while on a flight from Salt Lake to Boston.  A courageous passenger seated behind Mr. Smith took a photo of him allegedly watching child pornography on his laptop. The flight crew was notified and Boston police officers were waiting for Mr. Smith as he deplaned.  He was detained, his computer and phone searched, and then arrested. It's important to note that possession of even one image of child pornography is a felony.  

    This brazen display of the professor's need to view pornography shows the power of the addiction.

    Child pornography involves a very disturbing and dark subculture of Internet pornography. Child pornography is a fast-growing business and the content is becoming much more graphic and violent.  Because of the severity of the penalty for possession, child pornographers typically swap and share images on peer-to-peer networks to avoid publicizing their addiction by paying on commercial pornography sites.

    The most disturbing issue is that of those arrested for possession of child pornography, 40 percent had both sexually victimized children and were in possession of child pornography.

    Of those arrested between 2000 and 2001, 83 percent had images involving children between the ages of 6 and 12, while 39 percent had images of children between the ages of 3 and 5, and quite sadly,  19% had images of infants and toddlers under the age of 3 yrs old.  I can only imagine that the statistics are worse after ten years of continued devolution.

    According to Mark Shurtleff, attorney general of Utah, of those arrested for possession of child pornography, most started out viewing adult pornography but gradually progressed to more hard core images as the addiction advanced. (Source: KPCW radio interview on 30 Nov. 2011 at 9 a.m.)

    As parents, we need to be alert to the fact that sexual predators are online in search of prey.  Children are the target and must be protected.  Parental controls software is the best method a parent has in the fight against this sickening trend.  Net Nanny Mobile will launch in January to help protect kids and teens using smartphones and iPods.

    (Source: National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, Child Pornography Possessors Arrested in Internet-Related Crimes: Findings from the National Juvenile Online Victimization Study, 2005).

    I work for ContentWatch and all opinions expressed here are my own.

  • Tue

    Nov 29, '11

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    Viewing Pornography is Wrong?

    The Internet is a wonderful tool and vehicle to get you to almost anywhere you want to go.  Places and things that were out of reach due to financial or physical limitations can now be attained with just the click of a mouse.  Take pornography for an example.  Before the late 80's, individuals that wanted to view scantily clad women or men, had to buy magazines or visit a special club.  People can now turn on a computer and have a smorgasbord of options.

    • Is there anything wrong with a married man or woman indulging in a few servings during the day?
    • How does it affect one's attitude and view towards their spouse?
    Viewing pornography daily, and even once in a while, is wrong.  When two people join in marriage, they make promises to one another.  They promise to love and cherish their spouse through all of the hardships that may come along.

    Using pornography to supplement a relationship can and will destroy it in the end.  A spouse that is viewing pornographic material compares you to the images and practices that are portrayed.  He or she may justify their actions, but these very actions will cloud their ability to participate in actual real love.

    I work for ContentWatch and all opinions expressed here are my own.

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